(A negro such as myself should have a say...) You know what's more racist than a white person saying the n word? A black person getting mad at a white person for saying the n word in relation to their race. You allow the word fuck, but nigga ain't it? If someone asks us to stop, then sure, I'd stop or take it to msgs to someone I know doesn't give a shit, and or understands that it's not used seriously. Racist remarks shouldn't be allowed, and sexuality shaming shouldn't be allowed either. But that's like saying those other than heterosexuals can't say "YOU'RE STRAIGHT!", we all know y'all wouldn't do shit about that. Straight is another way of saying heterosexual as gay is for homosexual, just because people have used it offensively doesn't mean it's always an offense. If it's an offense, you'd notice people opposing its use.